Oh sweetie, relationships can be hard...*hugs* I think I kinda know what you're going through and the emotional ups and downs connected to it.
I broke up with my boyfriend last September after a 5 1/2 year relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and also marry him. But he had different plans and then didn't want to commit. So I (after months of struggling) decided to break up. Ofter I wonder if it was the right thing to do, as I'm sure I love him still. But I also tend to run away from problems and have been ignoring my broken heart...fandom really can help with that sometimes ;-)
From the way it sounds you really love your girlfriend, and if I were you, I'd try everything to make the relationship work! :-)
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Date: 2009-01-29 11:20 pm (UTC)I think I kinda know what you're going through and the emotional ups and downs connected to it.
I broke up with my boyfriend last September after a 5 1/2 year relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and also marry him. But he had different plans and then didn't want to commit.
So I (after months of struggling) decided to break up. Ofter I wonder if it was the right thing to do, as I'm sure I love him still. But I also tend to run away from problems and have been ignoring my broken heart...fandom really can help with that sometimes ;-)
From the way it sounds you really love your girlfriend, and if I were you, I'd try everything to make the relationship work! :-)